Friendship Diaries

  A ccept friendship fallout as they come and let whatever hurt you go. I am here not to make you comfortable by the way, but to tell you some hard truths.   Some of the most common phrases I hear from people after a friendship fallout is “after all I did for him or her” or “I can’t believe they did this to me” or “friendships are not real nowadays”. I am sorry that your experiences with friendships have been terrible but until you learn to set healthy boundaries around your friendships, then nothing is going to change. Felling down and sad after a friendship fallout is totally okay but dwelling so much on it after is not something you should do. Life happens, people change and accepting that will help cushion the blow. Why are you dwelling so much on the fact that, you did so much for the person. Did that person not do anything for you too? We should stop making people look so bad and analyze our friendships more objectively. From my view, we tend to go into friendships wit...

Welcome to Friendship dairies , a blog dedicated to learning, accepting, and normalizing healthy and progressive friendships. We all do meet various people at certain stages of our lives, some we get to have close friendships with, and others become friends because we find ourselves in the same environment as them. Do not view friendship with a sense of entitlement neither should you view friendships as an investment because if you do, there is a high possibility of being disappointed. Let’s learn to navigate our emotions through friendships and learn to enjoy the company of people and loved ones as long as we can. There is this popular saying that goes around when you ask people especially young adults these days as to why they are close with a person, and you will hear the phrase “we vibe”. Friendship should go beyond vibes. You will often see friends going their separate ways because one moved ahead in life. I think as people our insecurities about failure tend to heighten when...